Wednesday, March 16, 2011

The Tap Dance

In between my first and second marriages I did a tap dance of sorts with a very special friend. He was my best friend and got me through many problems in my life. He was a good listener and a great hangout friend. A relationship wasn't in the cards for us, just good company and comfort when I needed it. Most guys wouldn't understand this kind of relationship. But in today's world men and women are just friends without attachment all the time. Thanks PC You'll always be my BFF as far as a guy goes.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

The Stumbling 2 Step

What was I thinking? When my now second ex-husband asked me to marry him one Friday morning before he went golfing I said no. When he came back after a quick 9 holes, I said yes and we went down to the courthouse in Delray Beach, FL and got married. He then went back to playing golf for the rest of the afternoon. On Sunday he flew up to Altanta to go back to work. Like I said, what was I thinking? Much more on this stumbling 2 step later. He was an abuser mentally and physically. What was I thinking?

Friday, March 11, 2011

Wedding Dance

How ironic, I've been married three times and today would have been my 38th Anniversary if I was still married to my first husband, my high school sweetheart. I often wonder where he is and how he's doing. I do try to stay in touch, but it's been several years since our last contact. Our dance was a great first love story with a bittersweet ending. I hope some day we find each other again. He is still the love of my life. This kind of love doesn't come along very often.  My dreams still feature his face more often than any other person in my life. Happy Anniversary Flapper.I love you wherever you are....